metapianycist:

“It’s only a trigger if it causes horrible flashbacks” is so utterly divorced from how the concept of a trigger is used by actual real therapists

a thing doesn’t have to cause traditional flashbacks to be a trigger. a trigger can be a thing that causes:

- panic attacks
- emotional flashbacks*
- anxiety episodes
- paranoia/delusions
- hallucinations
- seizures
- rage episodes
- manic episodes
- depression spikes
- suicidal thoughts
- dissociative episodes
- sensory overload
- obsessions and compulsions (as in OCD)

and probably more things than that, i don’t know all the possible things. I’m not trained in clinical psychology, but neither are all the assholes who say “It’s not a real trigger unless it gives you flashbacks”

* an emotional flashback is a type of flashback where you feel the emotions associated with the trauma happening to you while still on some level knowing that the trauma isn’t currently happening to you. this is a more common type of flashback than the traditional kind.

tl;dr the word trigger in clinical psychology (the field of therapists) can refer to many things other than traditional flashbacks. stop telling ppl “that’s not a trigger unless it gives you flashbacks,” because you are utterly fucking wrong.

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American Horror Story Masterpost

americanhorrorstoryepisodes:

Here’s a masterpost including all episodes of American Horror Story! For people on mobile devices - there might be an ad placed on top of the videoplayer, look for the big X to click away the ad and the videolplayer will appear! 
If any of the links are broken please direct/instant message me.

Season 1 - Murder House
Episode 1: “Pilot”
Episode 2: “Home Invasion”
Episode 3: “Murder House”
Episode 4: “Halloween (Part 1)”
Episode 5: “Halloween (Part 2)”
Episode 6: “Piggy Piggy”
Episode 7: “Open House”
Episode 8: “Rubber Man”
Episode 9: “Spooky Little Girl”
Episode 10: “Smoldering Children”
Episode 11: “Birth”
Episode 12: “Afterbirth”

Season 2 - Asylum
Episode 1: “Welcome to Briarcliff”
Episode 2: “Tricks & Treats”
Episode 3: “Nor’easter”
Episode 4: “I Am Anne Frank (Part 1)”
Episode 5: “I Am Anne Frank (Part 2)”
Episode 6: “The Origins of Monstrosity”
Episode 7: “Dark Cousin”
Episode 8: “Unholy Night”
Episode 9: “The Coat Hanger”
Episode 10: “The Name Game”
Episode 11: “Spilt Milk”
Episode 12: “Continuum”
Episode 13: “Madness Ends”

Season 3 - Coven
Episode 1: “Bitchcraft”
Episode 2: “Boyparts”
Episode 3: “The Replacements”
Episode 4: “Fearful Pranks Ensue”
Episode 5: “Burn, Witch. Burn!”
Episode 6: “The Axeman Cometh”
Episode 7: “The Dead”
Episode 8: “The Sacred Taking”
Episode 9: “Head”
Episode 10: “The Magical Delights of Stevie Nicks”
Episode 11: “Protect the Coven”
Episode 12: “Go To Hell”
Episode 13: “The Seven Wonders”

Season 4 - Freak Show
Episode 1: “Monsters Among Us”
Episode 2: “Massacres & Matinees”
Episode 3: “Edward Mordrake (Part 1)”
Episode 4: “Edward Mordrake (Part 2)”
Episode 5: “Pink Cupcakes”
Episode 6: “Bullseye”
Episode 7: “Test of Strength”
Episode 8: “Blood Bath”
Episode 9: “Tupperware Party Massacre”
Episode 10: “Orphans”
Episode 11: “Magical Thinking”
Episode 12: “Show Stoppers”
Episode 13: “Curtain Call”

Season 5 - Hotel
Episode 1: “Checking In”
Episode 2: “Chutes & Ladders”
Episode 3: “Mommy”
Episode 4: “Devil’s Night”
Episode 5: “Room Service”
Episode 6: “Room 33″
Episode 7: “Flicker”
Episode 8: “The Ten Commandments Killer”
Episode 9: “She Wants Revenge”
Episode 10: “She Gets Revenge”
Episode 11: “Battle Royale”
Episode 12: “Be Our Guest”

Season 6 - Roanoke
Episode 1: Chapter 1
Episode 2: Chapter 2
Episode 3: Chapter 3
Episode 4: Chapter 4
Episode 5: Chapter 5
Episode 6: Chapter 6
Episode 7: Chapter 7
Episode 8: Chapter 8
Episode 9: Chapter 9
Episode 10: Chapter 10

Season 7 - Cult
Episode 1: “Election Night”
Episode 2: “Don’t Be Afraid of the Dark”
Episode 3: “Neighbors from Hell”
Episode 4: “11/9″
Episode 5: “Holes”
Episode 6: “Mid-Western Assassin”
Episode 7: “Valerie Solanas Died for Your Sins: Scumbag”
Episode 8: “Winter of Our Discontent”
Episode 9: “Drink the Kool-Aid”
Episode 10: “Charles (Manson) in Charge”
Episode 11: “Great Again”

Season 8 - Apocalypse
Episode 1: “The End”
Episode 2: “The Morning After”
Episode 3: “Forbidden Fruit”
Episode 4: “Could It Be… Satan?”
Episode 5: “Boy Wonder”
Episode 6: “Return to Murder House”
Episode 7: “Traitor”
Episode 8: “Sojourn” (airs Oct. 31)
Episode 9: “Fire & Reign” (airs Nov. 7)
Episode 10: “Apocalypse Then” (airs Nov. 14)

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countrygirlil2015:

piskykyle:

So I was taught a lesson in how to get rid of a migraine in 30 seconds and omfg listen my migraines don’t go away ever but I was shown what part of my body to touch and like???????????????

It’s witchcraft????????? Like I would be burned at the stake if I lived in ye olde days knowing that information?????

What the fuck??????

Spill it! Lol….Hooooowwwww?? Had migraines since age 9….😓😓😓

Its called the T4 push, but I literally can’t find the info online????? I guess I’m not searching good enough? These medical fuckers are holdin out on us lol.

It’s best to have someone do this for you while you stand up and relax your muscles as best you can, but if you’re alone, a tennis ball and a flat surface will probably work. Alternatively you can lie on the edge of a bed at the pressure point. (But no really do try to find someone to do it for you)

Find the area in your spine between either the first, second, third, or fourth vertebrae. It should be sore and uncomfortable to press down on, so look for the one that’s most painful, and press down with as much pressure as you can on that area for 30 seconds.

Realize that 80% of your pain has magically disappeared and keep the info secret if you live in a small puritan town, lest you be tried for witchcraft.

If you don’t have to worry about being burned or hanged, then share the info with your migraine suffering friends.

As someone who wrote a 10k word paper on pressure points for a high belt ranking test in her martial arts class, I can tell you that you just found a pressure point used in acupressure and acupuncture to relieve pain, particularly that in the head. :)

Hand to god we discovered this by accident when my husband was rubbing my neck and I nearly collapsed it felt so good

This post was sent by literal angels??? I’ve had a persistent low-level headache for nearly 24hrs and now it’s gone??? In 30 seconds? What gods did you sacrifice to for this information!?!?

As a medical massage therapist, I thought I would give my two cents.

This is good for tension migranes and normal migraines, but actually pretty useless for sinus migraines. It’ll help for a hot second, but quickly come back. (These are usually the migraines behind your eyes, in your ears, and behind your forehead. Sometimes it can feel like jaw pain or TMJ) for sinus migraines, behind the ear in a divot. Press down firmly and pull towards your collarbone. That’ll drain your sinuses. Also, pressing around the eye socket on the cheekbones help. There is also a little triangle up away from the eye in the eyebrow bone. Press and hold pretty hard and that’ll relieve that behind the forehead pain. Also, ear pulling is great to help move sinuses around.

Don’t forget the temples too! Press firmly and hold. Open and close your jaw while holding your temples. It’ll feel weird, but it’ll help with jaw pain. It’ll work a similar way if you hold the jaw joint under your cheekbone.

And never underestimate the power of a foot massage!! Give minutes can be all the difference!! Our feet are our base. If they hurt even a little, somewhere else in your body will hurt. Treat your feet and sinuses kindly!

As a lifelong sufferer from frequent migraines I will reblog this everytime I see it, for myself and my fellow sufferers!!

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chicklette:

wearitcounts:

not to be fake deep but admitting you fucked up and saying you’re sorry is 100000000x more rewarding than defending flawed views or thoughtless if unintentionally so actions, 10/10 would recommend, it’s not losing face it’s earning respect

This is literally how you know you’re an adult.  “I’m sorry I snapped at you.  I’m cranky but that doesn’t excuse taking it out on you.”  “I’m sorry I screwed this vital thing up.  I thought I had it under control and didn’t.  Can we fix it by xyz?”  “I’m sorry I forgot we had plans tonight.  I was distracted, but this is important to you.  Let’s do the thing!” 

A sincere I’m sorry are two of the most powerful words in the English language.  

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beyoncescock:

University: I have made a graduate.

Student Counsellor: You’ve ruined a perfectly good young adult, is what you’ve done. Look at it. It’s got anxiety.

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Details From Disney Movies

studthismuffin:

catchymemes:

In The Lion King, unlike the other lions, Scar’s claws are always displayed throughout the movie.

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In The Little Mermaid (1998) when King Triton is introduced, you can see Mickey, Donald, Goofy and Kermit the Frog in the crowd, underwater.

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In Cars, the flies are actually tiny cars with wings.

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In Hercules (1997) the Fates tell Hades all the planets will align but only show 6 planets aligning. These are the 5 planets plus Earth that the ancient Greeks were aware of and could see with the naked eye.

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In Zootopia, while Officer Judy Hopps is ticketing cars around the city, she never crosses the street illegally. She always uses a crosswalk and looks both ways before crossing.

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In monsters inc, sully’s chair has a hole in it to accommodate his tail.

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In The Brave Little Toaster, all of the walls in the cottage are cleaned only as high as Blanky can reach.

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In Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs, during the food storm the president’s of Mount Rushmore get pied in the face but Abe gets hit in the back just like his assassination.

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In Cars the truck stop advertises “convertible waitresses” i.e., topless.

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In Finding Nemo, Bruce the shark starts crying when Marlin starts talking about Nemo, saying “I never knew my father”. Male sharks mate with the female then leave, so baby sharks never actually meet their father.

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The Magic Carpet from Aladdin makes an appearance in Moana.

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In UP, there are craft supplies on the table by Ellie’s hospital bed when she gives the Adventure Book to Carl.

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The hold up scene in the Incredibles is actually an homage to a similar scene from Die Hard with a Vengeance, which also starred Samuel L. Jackson.

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In Toy Story 3 (2010) Buzz Lightyear’s batteries are exposed showing the Buy n Large brand, the same company responsible for making WALL·E.

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In Ratatouille (2007) Anton Ego’s typewriter resembles a skull and his office a coffin.

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In Monsters, Inc. (2001), there are multiple sizes of coffee cup for each of the different sized monsters.

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In Toy Story 2 (1999), as the restorationist is going through his equipment, he opens a drawer filled with chess pieces. This is a reference to the Pixar short “Geri’s Game” where a similar looking man plays a game of chess against himself.

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In Inside Out (2015) while going through Imagination Land a game box can be seen in the background with Nemo on it called Find Me.

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In Cars, you can spot Sully and Mike in cars form!

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At the end of Ratatouille (2007) Anton Ego is a little bit fatter. This is especially poignant since he states, “I don’t like food, I love it… if I don’t love it I don’t swallow.”

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In Coco we can see The Incredibles poster.

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Insuricare, the company that offers “car life insurance” to the cars in Cars 2, is the same company Bob Parr works for in The Incredibles.

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In Inside Out (2015) two of the memory orbs on the shelves contain scenes from Up (2009). One features Carl & Ellie’s wedding, while the other shows their house.

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In Toy Story Woody is trapped in a crate which is stuck under a ‘Binford’ tool-box. Binford is the fictional tool company in the TV show Home Improvement which starred Tim Allen, the voice of Buzz Lightyear.

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In The Incredibles, in Bob Parr’s home office, there’s a photo from a fishing trip where it appears he caught Bruce from Finding Nemo.

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In Cars 2 (2011) while in a pub in London there is a tapestry on the wall that is the DunBroch family tapestry from Brave (2012), except they are portrayed as cars.

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In “Ratatouille” (2007), Linguini has to hide Remy before his second day of work. He offers to hide him in his pants, revealing his briefs covered in The Incredibles logo.

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After the plane is blown up in The Incredible, Helen (Elastigirl) knows the plane debris is going to fall on them due to seeing the reflection in the water.

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THIS

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nitrosplicer:

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This picture of a bunch of college kids trying to keep from getting busted by the police is like something from a baroque painting

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pvstelheart:

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vuittonable:

Will Smith went to London and dressed up as a Boots sales assistant to promote Jaden’s new water brand ….. what dimension are we living in

“Brand of water” look at our society, we need a good old fashioned culling.

The kid is just doing what he wants to better the world. He started a brand of bottled water that’s better for the environment and is responsibly sourcing everything from the bottle to the water. They’ve gone as far to work with a specific city and only bottle excess water and pay the city more than its actually worth so their water infrastructure can be improved. He’s also donating water to Flint until the lead levels are actually at safe levels because the government decided they don’t want to anymore.


If you’re gonna try to complain about a celebrity doing something at least be educated on what they’re actually doing first

(Source: ilovepeppers, via classydude)

yayfeminism:

closet-keys:

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dakotaaaa:

some thoughts on self objectification 

Holy mother of hell

this is a huge reason why lesbians can go years just not figuring out that they aren’t attracted to men. when your whole understanding of attraction is “objectifying yourself to the point that you understand intimacy as a performance to be the perfect sexual object for a man” then the question of who and what you desire isn’t even being asked- let alone answered. 

This is pretty common. Women’s sexual fantasies (and gay men’s) are often about being an object of desire, rather than desiring someone else.

Research from the sexology journal, ‘Archives of Sexual Behavior’ found:

‘direct evidence that object of desire themes are linked more to women’s sexuality than they are to men’s.’

‘If a woman does perceive that she is an object of desire within her relationship, then her level of sexual desire and sexual activity may be fairly high. If, on the other hand, she does not feel a sense of her own desirability or being an object of desire, she may have very little sexual desire.’ [source]

Heterosexual men also included themselves as objects of desire in their fantasies, but to a lesser degree and it was not the key theme.

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